If you've been with someone for this length of time you'll have to ask yourself what reservations have I got?
如果你和某人生活了这么长时间,你得问一下自己,你对这段婚姻满意吗?
The message may even be an original saying written by a member of the family.
格言也可能是家庭某位成员写下来的新颖奇特的有独创性的见解。